Friday, March 31, 2006
3/31/2006 07:25:00 AM

Please Switch Off Your Handphones!

posted by FH2o

Lovely Peggy as chairwoman of the Sarawak Music Society most kindly invited me to a concert “From West to South East Asia”, a guitar recital by Peter Korbel (an accomplished German guitarist) with Sons (Simfoni Orkestra Negeri Sarawak) String Orchestra at the MBKS Auditorium last night.


And guess who else was playing in the orchestra last night? It was none other than Ben, our ever smiling music student on the violin viola as Peter Korbel’s left hand man! (Actually Ben was on his left hand side!)

Conducted by Marcus Leong with an interesting repertoire; the performance was fine if not stirring. But what was really stirring (and grating) one’s temper were the handphones that kept going off throughout the evening’s musical performance. Perhaps the MC was 'deaf', as whilst she waxed lyrical about the performance, but made no mention of this annoyance after Part 1 of the concert nor was there any announcement that all handphones should be switched off or put on silent mode during the concert! Duh!

Despite the rude interruptions; it was a successful and enjoyable evening.

Do people really have no cow sense at all? This is one ‘other side of the story’ that I do not really care to listen. If you are attending a concert or movie – can you please just SWITCH OFF YOUR BLOODY HANDPHONES you inconsiderate morons! What’s a stupid cow doing in a concert anyway?

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Thursday, March 30, 2006
3/30/2006 12:02:00 PM

Bright Day

posted by FH2o

In stark contrast to tuesday; it's bright and sunny today!



Why am I smiling when I look at this pic?

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3/30/2006 07:12:00 AM

Wet Day

posted by FH2o

It was raining almost the entire day yesterday and the building inspection has to be postponed from the morning to the afternoon. And there we were in the afternoon waiting for the rain to stop so that authorities would turn up for the inspection.

Instead of just twiddling my thumbs (or smoking) like everyone else was while waiting; I took the opportunity to take some photos of the overhead glass entrance canopy much to their bewilderment; and I guessed these people would be even more so if they found out that I actually blog about kayaking! My secret life or rather a part of my life most of whom I deal with on a daily basis has little idea about. Hmmm.

Anyway here are the photos taken in colour and not manipulated by Photoshop (other than the rotation and 'drop shadow'); and feel the wetness!

So what do you do when you are caught in the rain?

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Wednesday, March 29, 2006
3/29/2006 11:01:00 AM

Froggy's Feast

posted by FH2o

There was an 'outbreak' of flying insects (termites?) after the rain last night with swarms of them congregating at any light sources. There was a particularly large swarm around the street lamp just outside the house. After flying around the lights for a while (around half an hour I'd guessed) they would drop to the ground (from exhaustion?) and became a smorgasbord for creatures that feed on insects; particulary frogs, which started hopping out from the bushes to feast on this unexpected buffet dinner!



I was watching this for a while before it dawned on me that I should quickly take a few snaps to share this. So here are the pictures and don't you think that the swirling insects around the lights look like fireworks? And I also managed to get up close and personal (my camera was just inches away) with Mr Froggy to get his potraits!
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Tuesday, March 28, 2006
3/28/2006 04:57:00 PM

Little Aaron's Big Birthday Celebration at Tom's

posted by FH2o

We were invited to little Aaron’s Big One Year Old birthday celebration at Tom’s on Saturday night, 25th March 2006 by his lovely mum Juliana. The last similar invitation was for Anselm’s (Aaron’s bigger cheeky brother) one year old birthday party too at Lok Thian. Eldest sister Sineado was there too with the rest of Juliana’s big extended family members but unfortunately daddy’s in Calgary, Alberta, Canada – so this is for you Antonio, and all the other family members who are overseas to let you know what you had missed out in sunny and warm Kuching!


The food from Tom’s was great as usual and supplemented by Juliana’s mum famous “kah char mar” – Kuching’s famous ‘drunken herbal chicken’ (traditionally taken during the confinement period but consumed at all other times nowadays!); my all time favourite. Yummy! Oh! And the 'sinful' cheese/chocolate birthday cake is really something worth paddling for!


Thank you Juliana for inviting us and to answer your question when I asked you whether I could ‘blog this’ or not, and you consented after 'consulting' Sineado; this here is what you called a blog!

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3/28/2006 07:28:00 AM

Kayaking Anyone?

posted by FH2o

Law (indefatigable inflatable kayaker) sent me this cute pic and at first I thought it was a painting but it's actually a knitted soft toy! Something to rival ducky right?

Now you know what I would like for my birthday or christmas! BTW I happened to be a 'monkey' under the chinese animals sign (and I also have a yellow kayak as well!).

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Monday, March 27, 2006
3/27/2006 12:11:00 PM

Glorious Sunrise with Simon

posted by FH2o



As I slide open the patio doors this morning and looked out, I saw a stunning red morning sky and I promptly went in to get my digital camera to capture this glorious scene. I went outside the house to get a better view and there I met my neighbour, Simon who was already dressed for work while I was still in my pajamas! He was also enjoying this glorious sunrise. Spectacular as it already was, Simon told me that it was even more amazing a few moments ago. So while we chatted, I quickly clicked away at this fleeting scene, with the rich deep colours of the sky dissipating in a couple of short minutes later. These are for you Simon, Wallace and all the wonderful neighbours on our street!

What a beautiful start to the week!

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3/27/2006 09:23:00 AM

Of Awesome Sunset and Awful People

posted by FH2o

We were going for dinner yesterday evening and I spotted this family going into their car and obviously leaving. And obviously aware, from my indicator lights, that we wanted their parking lot; they took their own sweet time to vacate their parking spot. I’m sure we all had unfortunately encountered this type of character before. Pathetic people who seem to relish the ‘power’ they had over something that you wanted; even if it means a pathetic parking lot. Same sort of people but different situation, place and time. The truly ugly of the human species.



And so they make you wait. And waited we did for a aweful long time until the cars behind that we were holding up lost their patience and started honking. I resisted hitting the horn too and not wanting to hold up the traffic in the rain; I moved on rather than to wait any longer for this awful and mean person who's obviously relishing this. And just as I moved away, I could see from my rear view mirror that they finally decided to move; ‘happy’ that they had denied me the parking space! Amazing isn't it about the kind of unfathomable mentality of such people?


Anyway enjoy the awesome sunset that I took which I noticed when I got out of the car after letting my family out and finding another parking lot further down the road.

Come to think of it, I should and easily could have taken a photo of these selfish and dreadful people and shame them here but I didn’t. But then again small people like that are just not worth it.

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Sunday, March 26, 2006
3/26/2006 08:57:00 PM

Kayak Swimming Anyone?

posted by FH2o









Here are some more stunning photographs taken by Joe (some of my kayaking as well as photography skills must be rubbing off on him! *ahem*) with new found confidence that his Canon Ixus would be well protected from the elements in its waterproof casing/housing.




Along for the kayaking river run down Sg Sarawak Kanan were office colleagues Gilbert and Aady (twice baptised!), Hii and Ong (last minute baptisim) and 'expert' paddlers Roland and Iing! A team that paddles together, stays together! (And tandem paddlers swim together!)

Believe me; they had a 'splashing' good time! Hehe!

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3/26/2006 07:15:00 AM

Of Swimming Dog n Kayakers!

posted by FH2o





Here are some photos taken by Joe of our kayaking trip with his office colleagues on saturday morning or rather photos of swimming dog and kayakers!



The difference being that the dog's swim was intentional! Ouch!



And one taken of yours truly by Joe in the water mucking around with his new waterproof casing for the canon ixus.

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Saturday, March 25, 2006
3/25/2006 04:30:00 PM

With a Little Help from My Friends

posted by FH2o

My folding kayak – a Folbot ‘Cooper’ has been sitting, since the Chiangmai Expedition, neglected in the store until the arrival of our unwelcome guest; so I took her out last night to make sure that all her parts are intact and in good order. I also needed some practice in assembling her even though the Cooper is one of the easiest folding kayaks to assemble.

So when I received a timely sms from Gette that “she’ll be at Chilax and all idlers are invited. BYO, jokers”, I knew where I'm headed! Assembling a folding kayaks in our weather is hot and sweaty work and it dawned on me that why not do it at Chilax – a truly ‘chilling’ place with Mavis preference for sub-zeros temperature setting with her air conditioning! Polar bears would feel right at home.

When I got there lugging my Folder; Gette and Peggy were already there and Mavis and gang must be wondering what bag of tricks I’m up to this time!

Peggy, a fellow architect, chipped in to help while Gette was busy taking photos of us. Half way through, Hendrix (not Jimi but Lau!), another fellow architect walked in and he also chipped in to help. Before too long the kayak was fully “unfolded” with the final inflation of the side sponsons by ‘expert blower’, Peggy!

Being the creative architects that we were (*ahem*), some creative poses were in order with Peggy flexing her muscles much to the amusement of azzi Azreen and other bemused patrons of Chilax watching from the comforts of their sofa.

Fancy folding a kayak anyone?



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Friday, March 24, 2006
3/24/2006 02:38:00 PM

All the Best, Ezam & Mimik!

posted by FH2o


Ezam and Mimik, both fellow avid kayakers are running in the Saberkas RH Marathon this coming sunday. The three of us had been on many kayaking trips together before I started blogging.

Ezam, kayaker extraordinaire, is running his first full marathon while little chicken Mimik is doing the pussy half-marathon. Unlike Kenny (sorry hehe), I'm certain that Ezam will finish the marathon; it's only a matter of whether he could do it under sub-5 (below 5 hours) or even sub-4 (below 4 hours).

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3/24/2006 07:09:00 AM

Smoke Gets In Your Eyes

posted by FH2o

The other day after work as I was going to my car; I thought the weather has turned foggy which was very unusual. I rubbed my eyes to clear the cobwebs of staring onto the computer screens (I have 2 monitors) all day long; but the smoke was real.

I walked over to the riverbank as that’s where the smoke seems to be coming from and the few people who were also watching this informed me that one of the kampong houses has caught fire and the smell of kerosene seems to confirm it. If you live in a wooden hut by the river bank with no road access and when it catches fire; there is nothing really much you can do but to salvage what you can.

The smokes thicken as it blows over to where I was standing. And as I started to take photographs of the surreal atmosphere it dawned on me that I am appreciating this beautiful scene while some poor person’s house is burning to the ground! How detached can one get? I’d stopped watching TV news for a long time now with the endless cycle of negative images of violence and horrors that does nothing but numb our senses to feel anything. But I was not the only detached observer as there were a few anglers on the old jetty.

Look at these beautiful images and know that despite all the smokes in the world; it would not cloud our eyes to see the beauty that is all around us if we only have love in our heart. Lets keep this inner flame alive.


Written by Jerome Kern (music) and Otto Harbach (lyrics) for the musical "Roberta" in 1933
Recording by The Platters was a # 1 hit in 1959
Remade in 1973 by Blue Haze, it hit # 27

They, asked me how I knew,
My true love was true,
I of course replied, something here inside,
Can not be denied.

They, said some day you'll find,
All who love are blind,
When you heart's on fire, you must realize,
Smoke gets in your eyes.

So I chaffed them, and I gaily laughed,
To think they would doubt our love,
And yet today, my love has gone away,
I am without my love.

Now laughing friends deride,
Tears I cannot hide,
So I smile and say, when a lovely flame dies,
Smoke gets in your eyes,

Smoke gets in your eyes.


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Thursday, March 23, 2006
3/23/2006 07:17:00 AM

I Made A Mistake (So Learn From Me!)

posted by FH2o





S
ome mistakes are painful and some are embarrassing and still others are both.

As it would have it; I’d to shoot off an imprudent email and now of course I realized that it was a stewpig mistake; painfully and embarrassingly so!

As I do not enjoy unpleasanties, I will not dwell or elaborate on the details of this mistake; plus it's none of your business anyway! Oops!

However to save you folks from such unnecessarily self-inflicted pains, here is what I’d learned from this episode:-

  • Never shoot off your mouth (or email) when you’re feeling down in the dumps. Bad moods tend to cloud your good judgments and senses. Wrong choices of words can be hurtful.
  • Realise that you’ll never get to know or understand a person fully irregardless of how long you’ve known them. It’s always the people who are closest to us that we know the least.
  • Never argue with a fool or someone with thicker skin than you. They are prepared to humiliate/embarrass themselves publicly – but are you?
  • Maturity and grace has nothing to do with age, position or educational levels. Age may in fact make certain people bitter, arrogant and intolerant of opposing views.
  • People have big and more importantly fragile EGOS at that. Some are powder keg just waiting to be ignited! You do not want them to explode in your face. So tread carefully.
  • Some people take themselves way too seriously and have no sense of humour. So do not assume that they'll take anything in a lighthearted manner that you may. Be sensitive of people's feelings.
  • If you must send off a sensitive email to a group – please do NOT disclose their names on the list. Do it as “Undisclosed Recipients”. This is an important lesson.
  • It may not be wise sometimes to be truthful about your feelings. Keep it bottled or risk getting it off your chest and be prepared for the repercussions.
  • Expect the unexpected. While the majority of the people will dwell on what you have written and response to you in a calm and thoughtful manner; there will be the odd one or two who would impulsively react negatively in a knee-jerk manner. Spastic!
  • Some people do not accept apologies. They'd rather hate than forgive and move on.
  • I'm not perfect - no way! Hopefully I learn from my mistakes.
  • It may be time to burn some bridges as some 'friends' are probably not worth having.
  • No one is right or wrong and it's not important. Keeping a friendship may be more important.
  • Let sleeping dogs lie.

So for whoever I had inadvertently offended I offer my unreserved apologies as that’s the last thing I would do. I’d rather go kayaking anytime!

But for those who get offended irregardless of whatever I may say or write; you know where to find the nearest body of water to jump in! I'm just kidding! Be well irregardless!














“Do not brood over your past mistakes and failures as this will only fill your mind with grief, regret and depression. Do not repeat them in the future.”

Swami Sivananda

“Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.”
Albert Einstein

“All men make mistakes, but only wise men learn from their mistakes.”
Winston Churchill

“There are no mistakes. The events we bring upon ourselves, no matter how unpleasant, are necessary in order to learn what we need to learn; whatever steps we take, they're necessary to reach the places we've chosen to go.”
Richard Bach

“Learn from the mistakes of others-you can never live long enough to make them all yourself.”
John Luther




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Wednesday, March 22, 2006
3/22/2006 09:39:00 AM

Beautiful Bengoh to Delectable Danu : A River Run down Sg Sarawak Kiri at Borneo Highlands

posted by FH2o

We set off on a beautiful and misty Sunday morning from 10th Mile, padawan after taking our breakfast at the famous noodle stall there where there were also some bikers getting their fill as well. Duly fortified and having dispensed safety instructions (the first river run for KS) we set off for Bengoh with Joe behind getting the strange looks as usual with his kayak dangling over both ends of his ‘kancil’.

Bengoh has the nicest put-in I’d known; with a small clear trees-lined rockface stream on both sides that meanders gently onto Sg Sarawak Kiri. Joe, KS and Dayang concurred with wide smiles on their face as we got on the way. Their smiles turned into frowns however as we got on to Sg Sarawak Kiri where we had to paddle upstream to reach Sg Embahn, the ‘black river’ I wanted to show them first before we venture down to Danu.

With a bit of greased elbow and a rest stop or two, we reached the confluence of the two rivers and gratefully paddled onto the still waters of Sg Embahn. This river is of interests to me as they are building a dam upstream and I wanted to show the group how it is now before the inevitable changes that would come with the building of the dam. Damn the dams but progress is progress. Upon reaching the first rapid we took a short break by the river bank and just then we heard voices and KS spotted a bamboo bridge high up on the banks with school children crossing them.

We got back into our kayaks and it was an easy paddle down Sg Embahn to Sg Sarawak Kiri and the as we gazed up to the distant highlands we could see the misting dissipating in the rising sun. But it was still cool down in the valley and the occasional breeze was most welcoming.

The sounds of insects, birds and the rustling of the water against the hulls of our kayaks negate any need for conversation and we looked at each other beaming with delight in the serenity of the morning on the river. KS broke the silence with the observation that most people would be too lazy to get off their butts to be doing this. Perhaps I remarked it could be that they are simply not aware of such carnal pleasures!

The sceneries along the river were simply stunning with overhanging huge rainforest trees and as we rounded a bend we came upon the wave-like limestone walls carved by the wind and the river. KS kept saying that he should have brought his SLR and Dayang must be wishing that he would just shut up! Their first rapid shut them up alright as Dayang misread the currents and KS had his first encounter of a submerged river hazard in the form of a jutting tree branch. He kicked it out of his way in time but nearly capsizing the boat in the process. I watched as the kayak turned facing the wrong way down the river. This is classic! But as a mild rapid, they were not in harm’s way; so I was not unduly worried. KS can survive a bruised ego.

Time flies when you are having fun and we reached Danu all too soon. I noticed from the corners of Joe's and KS's mouth the disappointment when we got out of the water. Was the trip too short or were they hoping against hope that there would be 200 college girls splashing in the water waiting for us!

The next time we planned to go further down to Kg Semadang about another 2 hours float away. Kayaking anyone?










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Tuesday, March 21, 2006
3/21/2006 10:24:00 PM

Unwelcomed Visitor

posted by FH2o

Boy! I'm tired!



I had spent the good part of the evening, trying unsuccessfully, to find and evict this critter from our house. Apparently it sneaked into the house in the afternooon and mdm saw it went inside my kayaking stuff store and she promptly closed the door after it. That's her story anyway as after laboriously and with great trepidations, unloading almost every single item from the store, the nearly 2 feet (60cm) long lizard is still nowhere to be found. *sigh*



As you can imagine everyone in the house is unhappy about this unwelcomed visitor although I'm not that uptight over the situation as I'm sure it would leave the house on its on accord - eventually. I had sent in our dogs to try so sniff it out but to no avail.



So folks, any brilliant suggestions or bright ideas on what I can do before I get evicted from the house as well?



Ah! The joys and pleasures of living so close to nature ...



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3/21/2006 06:33:00 AM

Bridges of Bengoh County

posted by FH2o

While we were exploring the borneo highlands on Sunday; both on and off the waters; we came across and had to cross a number of bridges but these ingenious bamboo bridges spanning across the rivers caught our attention. We definitely had to take a closer look and to admire these ingenious indigenous structures.

Still in use by the bidayuhs (native of Sarawak) to cross rivers/ravines to get to the interiors, these bridges are in a constant state of repair and though they may look flimsy and precarious but are in fact extremely strong and functional. Made from readily available materials (entirely bamboos and vines) they are eco-friendly and beautiful. The ‘modern’ steel suspension bridges look positively pedestrian by comparison! The spans both lengthwise and height above the river bed are impressive and a testimony to the native’s resourcefulness, ingenuity and engineering.

I think they are more romantic and lyrical than the prose of Robert James Waller! Take a look for yourself or better still walk across one, one day!

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Monday, March 20, 2006
3/20/2006 07:10:00 AM

Taken Leave(s) of Our Senses?

posted by FH2o

I was looking at the clumps of leaves gathering against my jetty steps before being carried off by the ebbing tide. With a canopy of mangrove trees overhead, the jetty and timber deck are constantly strewn with fallen leaves; which with their variations of sizes, shapes and colours are a delightful sight to us. It is therefore amusing to us when visitors remarked that it must be a ‘nuisance’ to have to constantly sweep them away to keep the deck ‘clean’. As everyone’s sense of values may be different from ours, we gave a ‘politically correct’ answer that the wind would automatically do that for us by blowing them away; which it often does! Leaves are naturally biodegradable (duh!) and I would prefer the sight of rotting leaves than the human litter of plastics and other wastes, anytime. We had become so out of touch with nature that we are now afraid of natural things!

But I’m sure we all know of a number of people who had written to local councils to have roadside trees chopped down (which in most instances they stupidly unfortunately do) because of the ‘nuisance’ of the leaves falling onto their driveways, roof gutters, patios, etc. Granted that they may be ‘nuisance’; it is something that I would (and very happily) gratefully live with rather than an absence of them and the accompanying shades, birds, insects, butterflies and other priceless delights that they bring. What's the point of having a sterile environment or have I taken leave of my senses?

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Sunday, March 19, 2006
3/19/2006 04:20:00 PM

Beautiful Borneo Highlands

posted by FH2o

We had just came back from our river run from Bengoh to Danu and we had a wonderful time on the river and exploring the Borneo Highlands area after our paddle.

The place is so beautiful and we had discovered a new river, with crystal clear mountain water that we would definitely be back to paddle, which joins Sg Sarawak Kiri; the river we were on. I couldn't wait to share this with you; so here are some quick photos!

The place and river is so beautiful that all residents of Kuching really do owe it to themselves to experience this wondrous magical river; at least once in their lifetime.

A posting and more photos (in the next few days) will follow this quick post.

Trust that your sunday had been just as wondrous and satisfying.

Woof! woof!

Sunday, 19th March 2006

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Saturday, March 18, 2006
3/18/2006 11:11:00 AM